Senator McCain,
As an child, born in Knoxville, Tennessee, and raised in Houston, Texas, I grew up in a South that was still full of hatred and prejudice.
As a gay man, raised in an extremely religious home, I grew up believing I was destined to go to hell for something I had yet to even understand.
As a Christian, brought up with a Methodist Minister grandfather, and with "by-the-book" parents (who now live in Washington, yet still found a Southern Baptist church), I was taught early to establish my own relationship with God.
As someone with such a strong relationship with my creator, I eventually learned I was how He created me. I was not destined for hell, and not "morally bankrupt" after all.
As an adult with this knowledge, I realized most hatred or bigotry against gays comes from the same desire to be the best Christian possible, but through following man's interpretation, instead of God's will.
As an informed man, I know how hard it is to change the knowledge of what one believes they posses as a result of a lifetime being taught incorrect morals.
As a forgiving man, I hold no hatred or anger towards those who wish me harm, or an eternity in hell. I respect anyone who holds strong beliefs based on religious doctrine, and understand the difficulty it takes to change years of lessons.
As a victim of bigotry, I know the great pain experienced when that hatred is directed your way.
As a son of a United States Marine, with United States Army grandfathers, and a close friend of an United States Army Airborne Ranger, I have great respect and love for all service men and women. Regardless of their beliefs, anyone who would knowingly put their life on the line to protect the rights I seek today deserves respect.
As a part of a community fighting for the same right to fight for our Country, I fear the irony of fighting for a right denied us.
As an American, I believe Don't Ask, Don't Tell should be repealed.
